Your partner has moved to a new workplace. He's making lots of new friends. Your partner has this one particular opposite-sex-friend. Gradually, that friendship has turned into a very intimate (is when he talks to you about her 24/7 and that makes u feel like u know this girl thoroughly), flirty kind of thing, BUT no physical contact occur. You would say he is flirting, he calls it being friendly. You say he's obsessed with her, he calls you paranoid. You says he tells her way too much, he says it's not different to how close you're with ur friends. You refuse to accept the excuses and he refuse to give in to you. You know 'something' is going on and u cant make peace with the feeling. So what else to do? I personally think the best thing to do is to invite that friend to a dinner/lunch, together with ur partner. During that time, observe how ur partner and that 'friend' communicate to each other. If he behaves like a flirty-single man (or behaves like anything except being a boyfriend to you), then he's totally into that 'friend'. Then you're left with 1Q; To win him back or dumped him into the sea. atau kasi makan sama buaya si reno..LOL IF my bf is infatuated with other girl,i prefer him to come clean but it doesnt mean i would forgive him. I'm a very loyal person, infatuation is a thing that i cant tolerate with. Apa lagi mau curang, i will gunting anything that i can gunting in him. *Okie, I'm exaggerating. LOL.* Conclusively, we all know how a normal friendship looks like. What happen in that situation is very obvious; IT IS NOT A NORMAL FRIENDSHIP, so stop giving excuses 'ike 'we are just friend' . If they still want to flirt flirt with other people, then do not commit in any serious relationship. kalau mau main main, pegi main dgn ular sawa @ singa @ piranha @ jaws, jgn main dgn perasaan org. *This post is ready to be published and saved in my draftbox ok,i tak curi tulang time keja.